Hello Santima, you are so right...you have touched my heart. While many of the commentators (and surprisingly some BJP leaders too) are basically convinced/influenced by the anti-BJP (or anti-nationalist) mainstream media, they either got it wrong or indulging in blame game. This is not at all good for a party, you must stick to your basic policies, ideologies. Even if you have to wait for a long time to win the election, so be it, do not give up the long term goal, do not loose the base support. If you have a strong base, one day you can win back the floating/independent voters, not the other way around. Do not always compare with US, they are so different than India, they (US) are mostly of the same religion and culture. While talking about the young voters, they are not just fall from heaven, they are influenced by their parents/teachers the most. So you see a young BJP leader/worker/supporter mostly comes from a family of BJP leader/worker/supporter.
About Varun Gandhi, it is very wrong to say that he is the main reason of BJP's failure in other parts of UP. Just think about it...if Varun can win from his constituency, then why not put 50 Varuns in 50 UP constituencies, and become winner of all 50 seats. It's all about a person, his leadership quality, influence of his speech on people and his strong character...no matter how great a person is, if he lacks leadership quality, he will never win. So try to find out the jewel leaders and give them a chance. Majority hindus are somewhat indefferent about the politics (polls 30-40%), so to mobilise them you need many Modis & Varuns. Otherwise, united minority will always choose the Indian Govt (by polling 80-90%) and many more political parties will appease/beg them to win the election. Shame on hindus, more than 5000 innocent people killed brutally mostly by Islamic terrorists in Cong's 5 year rule, that does not concern them. We do not learn from the History. We just need some money to live and live in peace, but you see bread is not the only thing what matters...where is economy without security? Look around for the proof. Anyway, WE SHALL OVERCOME, ... (3) SOMEDAY ... OH DEEP IN MY HEART, I DO BELIEVE ... WE SHALL OVERCOME SOMEDAY.